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About this blog

Bicultural Mom™ was created out of a need to express my feelings about race, culture and my own interracial relationship.  As many know, our family and friends are often the most expressive about your personal choices, and likely won’t see your mixed relationship as off limits.

After struggling for years with both mine and my husband’s families, I felt that I needed my voice to be heard.  Bicultural Mom™ is the place where I am heard, it’s my online support group and my own creative space where I do some of my most important thinking about life.

Some days I’m getting deep into social politics and others I’m just having fun and sharing about the things that interest me.  Topics often include: motherhood, activism, politics, feminism, Mexican American culture, interracial relationships, biracial parenting, racism, diversity, multiculturalism, education, self-improvement and the occasional review or giveaway.

What is a ‘bicultural’ mom?

A bicultural mom is one who raises her family simultaneously within two dominant cultures…living on the edge and with one foot on each side of the border.  Bicultural moms juggle languages, cultures, in-laws, and wage battles against societal pressures to assimilate.  We’re strong, dynamic women, with multifaceted family lives and creative spirits!  :)

Who is Chantilly?

I’m a ‘bicultural’ mom who loves writing and analyzing social ‘norms’.  I blog honestly about racism, feminism and a variety of social issues that affect modern families.

I’m a white mom in an interracial relationship, raising a Latina daughter and I believe that everyone can and should talk about race thoughtfully and honestly.  I believe in empowering mixed and multicultural families and educating others about white privilege and the role that we play in systems of racism and discrimination that continue to segregate this nation.

Join me as I explore race through the lens of the modern family via topics like interracial relationships, multiracial parenting and more.  Read more about me by visiting the “mi vida” tag.

Blogging Cred

I currently publish a variety of websites for multicultural families including Bicultural MomMulticultural FamiliaMFinds and a multicultural blog directory.

I am also the Managing Editor at New Latina and the official Graphic Designer for Niche Mommy, a blogging conference for multicultural women bloggers.

You can also find me blogging at ChantillyPatino.com, my personal resume site and blogging tips blog.

Learn more about all my publications here: www.chantillypatino.com/publications/

Connect with me online

You can connect with me via any of the social platforms in the top, right corner of this blog.  I’m on Facebook most of the time, but Twitter is quickly growing on me and I’m a newbie Google Plus-er (is that a word?) and YouTube vlogger.

You can sign up for updates from this blog by subscribing to my RSS feed for instant alerts or get a weekly summary in my Monday newsletter!

I look forward to chatting with you more and please feel free to connect with me in my Facebook groups as well.  You can find me in my Blogging Tips Forum on Facebook or in the Multicultural Familia Open Forum.

If you want to connect with me more directly, you can reach me at chantilly {at} biculturalmom {dot} com.

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Wow, your article that was posted on Foxnews is so riddled with disgusting assumptions it is nor wonder there is racial confusion and backlash rampant in America. There seems to be some misguided attempt to define racism by some childish  standard of vengeance. You seem to be implying that the accepted definition of racism is "white people doing bad things to black people". My word, are you serious. Your institutionalized victim attitude is what is keeping us down...not helping us....let's hope someone cuts your media relationships before more of us have to deal with your infantile drivel. 

Hi Chantilly,

While I'm not a bi-culture Mom, I have to say that your blog still speaks to me. I lived in Mexico until I was 13 and I'm now a college student living in Boston- the lifestyle is so different and I'm trying my hardest to keep my Mexican heritage and culture from slipping away. This is a really good source of inspiration for myself and my own blog!

Keep writing!
Nicole Troelstrup

Thank you so much Nicole!  You definitely don't have to be a mom to read this blog, but it sounds like you've already got the bicultural part down.  ;)  I talk here a lot about balancing life between Mexican and American heritage and also the bicultural differences between our in-laws.  Thanks so much for stopping in!  I'd love to hear more about your experiences between Mexico and Boston...sounds really interesting!  :)  Feel free to leave your blog link!

Hi,
so glad I came across this blog. I am passionate about multiculturism as well, have known no other way to live since childhood! Look forward to reading more of your posts:)

Thank you Zvezdana. I'm glad that we can connect! :)

Thanks for your blog...i have been searching for more bi-cultural Mom bloggers...you are the first I have found that strikes that voice for me. Your voice is definately refined, though you mention here that you are still striving for it. I think you have it. Just keep going with it!

Aww...thanks so much for your kind words. I really appreciate it and I couldn't be happier that other bicultural moms out there are enjoying my posts. I hope we can connect and get to know each other better. Thanks so much for reading! =)